Saturday, September 27, 2008

"rear" view reflection

what is it about the fascination of all things anal that drive people to stretch and explore this tiny part of the human anatomy...it leads me to say just one thing...

ewww....

i am all for others exploring and pushing their orifices open wide for sexual pleasure...but it only brings one thing to mind....the scene from the film "evolution" with david duchovny and orlando jones when the doctors are attempting to retrieve an alien insect from the tush of orlando jones...

oddly enough, i am very much interested in others' experiences...it offers a different perspective...

the idea of anal pleasure for the public at large has been promoted through various films...it has become more common for men to massage anally whilst masturbating...

while writing this post, my ass cheeks reflex and quiver...but NOT in anticipation...quite the opposite...

but for so many, the idea of going on an ass-tastic voyage is just the little vacay they enjoy...

which one are you?

cg

9 curious people say...:

Sucre Bebe said...

Ohh CG! We have chatted on this many many times.

My butt is also quivering in fear.

I think it is not always a case of pleasure but a case of trying to be trendy or alleviating boredom.

I suppose it can be sexy and deep and wonderful--but I think it requires more than just a hard pole and desire, with lube slathered on top.

bdenied said...

Its fine as long as there is a chance to get it toatly clean before hand...so for me its not a thing that is going to happen without prior planning....and I can take it or leave it....if a girl wants it fine I ll do it and if she wants to do me thats fine too.

Percy said...

interesting...

not a great desire of mine. a curiosity more than anything. and yeah like bdenied said.. prior planning would be a must

wingnut said...

According to a source at Esquire, the upcoming issue features an interview with Anne Hathaway in which she endorses anal sex.

Anne reportedly says that “every woman should try it, otherwise they miss out on something amazing.” She also (allegedly!) speaks about the significance of the first time and how anal penetration makes her feel feminine in a “very special way.”

If Anne endorses it, it must be good.

curiousgirl said...

@sugarbaby - oh, girl, sexy, deep, and wonderful are the words i would use to describe a man's voice...not anal sex lol

@bdenied - speaking of cleanliness...CHB (collegehookerboy) posted on this where someone did NOT clean prior...needles to say the shit hit the fan...

@percy - yeah, right, all guys say they could take it or leave it...

@wingnut - you would find a quote like that...and while i like anne hathaway, her judgment has a lot to be desired...hello??...didnt you see who she broke up with??..

cg

wingnut said...

I have no idea who she broke up with, and at no point in my life would I ever care. That aside, the only reason I posted that information, was due to a radio talk show in my area that brought it up. Today they read a new statement claiming this is a false quote, so Anne has not officially endorsed butt sex.

If you want my opinion, I have no objection to the activity, though giving, not receiving. I can say that every significant other who I have been engaged in this activity with, have requested a return visit from the Doctor.

It has a lot to do with technique and trust, and that is meant with no sarcasm. I have witnessed some very amazing reactions during butt sex. A clean booty, plenty of lube, good communication, and a trusted partner are a must. Without these things, anal sex can be grounds for separation/divorce and/or a drop kick from a second story window in no time.

I have caused some pain throughout my experiences, due to various reasons, and either corrected what wasn't working or exited all together. That's where the trust comes in and knowing your partner won't go to town even while you're screaming in pain.

Just know that I'm not trying to swing your view. I'd rather have butt sex performed on me than go down that road. I'm just providing insight from my point of view.

Regin said...

I can say that my Aneros is the next best thing to having another person in bed with me. I just ordered the larger size.

And when there is another person in bed with me, my orgasm goes through the roof.

That said, I haven't actually experienced anal sex itself, either giving or receiving. I have very little interest in giving (which is fine, as my Beloved has just as little interest in receiving), but given my experience with the Aneros, I really want to be pegged with a strap-on.

curiousgirl said...

@regin - i have heard men rave about the aneros...i am glad your experiences have been so positive!

thanks for stopping by!

cg

the_beast_within said...

the sphincter is extremely sensitive, with more nerve endings than the clit....so probing, exploring, massaging, etc can be very pleasurable. for men, yes, the P-spot orgasm can be unbelievable. I enjoy exploring and doing sensual anal play....but stretching, gaping, fisting, all that kind of stuff? eew, no thank you.