Sunday, January 18, 2009

when men dont listen

went out this weekend...wasnt really in the mood, but i let myself get talked into it...this younger guy kept talking to me and wanting to dance with me, but i was more interested in the band...after several attempts with me telling him no, he finally just comes up behind me and rubs his pelvis against my ass..no, i was not turned on...he smelled and was a "Y" for yikes...then he did the one thing you should never do to a woman you dont know...

he grabbed my tit, juggled it, then pinched my nipple...

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i turned to hurt him, but he asked for my number...

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finally, i realized that i was the grown up...

"how old are you?"

"im 25, but age is just a number, baby"

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he left when i told him he was too young and too drunk and to keep his hand off my tits...

oh boy...

cg

15 curious people say...:

petitemort said...

I just responded to your comment on my blog, and I see the connection between the comment and the post.

It's wrong for a man to assume, just because a woman is (unescorted?) in a bar, she has given him blanket permission to touch her, or even talk to her. The woman has every right to reject men in such situations, for any reason (appearance, smell, intellect) or no reason at all.

Rape is the antonym of romance; lechery the opposite of love.

comfydildo said...

The last time a man touched me and I didn't like it, I bit him. I expected he'd jerk his arm away. Unfortunately he liked it and grabbed me tighter. Next time I'll draw blood.

comfydildo said...

btw. I'm UNDER 25. I guess I'll stop sexually harassing you. *cries*

wingnut said...

May I suggest a can of mace or taser in the future? If that doesn't work, just tell him/her that you are having a raging herpes outbreak, offer to give them your telephone number, and make sure the number you give them is to someone you really, really like. Just my 2 cents.

wingnut said...

Oh, and comfy, have no dismay, notice she mentioned that he was too young AND too drunk. Just stay sober with her and you'll be just fine. (Also might want to put on some deodorant before grabbing her tit, too. She did mention that he smelled.)

comfydildo said...

Now Wingnut, You ought to be ashamed of yourself for suggesting I've forgotten the deodorant. TSK! I ALWAYS smell amazing.

ha ha the captcha is muskedl

mnwhr said...

You were a good one for taking the high road, he needed an ass whupping.

Aneris said...

CG, you know my latest struggle with the age thing.

He was an ass and part of assy-ness was his age and his inebriated state.

Maybe he thought it was going to be like X-tube; you were going to sigh and giggle, then lead him to a dark corner for a hot quickie. Deluded fool, he.

You are in the golden age of sexual springtime where you glow to all ages.

Just make sure you wear shoes that allow you to remain steady, while you kick the next guy who tries you in his ass.

wingnut said...

Comfy, I did not mean to imply that you would not wear deodorant. I was simply trying to reduce your fears that you would be eliminated from any CG contact based entirely on your age and was trying to ensure favor under those circumstances. I certainly would assume pleasant smells coming from you under most any situation, and simply wanted to show you how simple it would be to reduce your age being a consideration entirely for such an event.

comfydildo said...

You don't have to apologize I was just being flirty and snarky.


captcha: sukok (suck cock)

curiousgirl said...

@petitemort - i seem to run into that more with men that are around the 25 and under crowd...by the time the get a little closer to 30, they exercise a little more restraint...unless plied with waaay too much alcohol lol...

@comfy - i dont like to make a scene...i would rather quietly exit and leave him to his own exploits...i avoid confrontation unless i know that is the best possible way to make my point known...in this case, quiet was the best way...his friends saw him acting a fool and took him home...

@wingnut - like i said to comfy, unless something stronger was needed, i opt for the quiet exit...the good thing is that my sister had several friends that would have stepped in in a heartbeat if needed...plus, as a precaution, they walked us out to our car...

@mnwhr - eh, he was young and feeling himself too much...lol...

@aneris - i know!...this goes back EXACTLY to what you and i have talked about...just re-affirmation i suppose...

cg

petitemort said...

I like myself now much more than when I was under 30.

bdenied said...

Well CG, age may be a number but maturity isnt....guys can be dumb and it matters not their age....Men who do not respect ladies are just dumb jerks,,,,,dont give up on all of us though......

the Beau said...

I'm with Mnwhr. He needed a knee between the jewels. (Figuratively speaking--probably not literally.)

I've got a big concert this week, but I'll be reading up on your posts soon. Thanks for visiting my blog!

curiousgirl said...

@beau - lol...probably..but then i'm so short my knee may not have made it up so high!!...

i've been reading your blog off/on...found you when you were at tbk...curious to see what your new name will be!!

cg