the dating pool - can you be my side chick?

i knew we would hit if off just fine because our texts and phone calls had such amazing energy...we met within 3 days of "meeting" online...he lived fairly close to me so setting up a time/place to meet was easy...from the first moment it was one of those clicks where you want to just skip the dinner and go right the kissing and making out part...

he came over on the second date...we played games (non-sexual, you pervs!) and talked and drank a little..the sexual tension was thick...heavy...it hung in the air between us...i kept waiting for him to make the first move...just reach out and kiss me, dammit!...he told me i was this mixture of innocence and sensual energy that was irresistible...well, then hurry the hell up and kiss me!...

the minute our lips locked we just couldn't stop...it had been a few months since i had any kind of action so the kissing was like water to the dry earth...lips...tongues...hands...his hands on my breasts....mouth on my nipples...licking, teasing, biting...

he leaned back and laughed...wow...you are a really really good kisser...

then he giggled...and covered his mouth while he was giggling...he honestly looked like a little kid in that moment...

the sexual energy moving through my body came to a screeching halt...

giggled...this guy is in his 30s...clearly very sexual...he told me that my kissing was intimidating...um...how so??...he just kept GIGGLING and said...it just is, i feel like i couldn't kiss you like you need to be kissed...

wtf...i just stared at him...dumbfounded...what the hell do you even say to that??...one minute my body was humming with sexual energy, wetness flooding my panties...the next...nada...

now i get we had been drinking...but i had one drink...i don't even know what he had...it was some months back...but the giggling thing, i'm not gonna lie...that was weird...

some intuition told me this wouldn't work...but surely the making out could go on?...maybe?...we tried again but i just couldn't get as into it...thankfully, he didn't seem to notice...

a few minutes later he was getting ready to leave...asking me to come over the next day...i'll cook for you...i'm a great cook...

sure, i said...i mean, we did get along and i didn't have anyone else on the radar...why not?...

promise? he asked...sure...

the next day...i didn't hear from him...i texted him a couple of times...i am NOT the type of woman to keep reaching out if i am not getting anything back from a man...i wont send message after message...where are you? are you there? did i do something wrong?...if a man doesn't respond after one or two messages within a day or so...he's not that into you...or he is and you're just his stress reliever for the time being..and i get that...so i usually take the hint, delete the number and move on down the road...

that evening he asked if he could talk to me...um...sure...nutshell: so my ex came by and we were fighting and yelling and she got evicted from her place and no one else will take her in so she will be staying with me, so unfortunately, i can't see you anymore...i'm really not happy about this because i really like you...

but we can still text and stuff...just not with my phone, we can use a messaging service because she checks my phone all the time, she's kinda crazy...but i'm still really into you...

hold up...really??...no.

no and no...i'm not side chick...and if she's crazy i sure as hell don't want to be remotely connected with him for sure...why you would want to be with someone who yells at you is beyond me...i knew when he giggled something was off!

stay tuned for the next dating pool story!

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cg