evil hag bitch

yesterday and today were two very stressful days as they dealt with the "clean-up" since my father's death...it's been seven months and we are just to the point where are untangling items...evil hag bitch was a relative (she is no longer because i have since put a curse upon her...seriously, i have never seen a grown woman (sixties) act so petulantly...

suffice it to say she has all the "power" and we have none...like i care...she doesnt like the way we respond (or dont in some cases)...but if you had to deal with her you would also delay calling back EHB...i have tried on many occasions to address her catty behavior...and guess what...she doesnt care...

oh it was so great...she rolled her eyes, did a LOT of fake yawning, looking at her watch, tapping her fingernails, clicking her pen, mocking...when i used a calm voice and polite words she got snippy and laughed like our concerns were the silliest things in the world..."ha ha ha"...

she wanted to make us feel like our time wasnt valuable to her (which is how she says we have treated her)...if i had not been so stressed and pissed (yes, i fucking broke down and cried i was so infuriated with her) i would have laughed...but honestly...this was someone that has been there for me since i was born...i had never seen this side of her...she was ridiculous and deliberately hurtful...

we got the things that we were supposed to get but i was more concerned about the loss of the relationship...we used to get along so well...the last visit was a good one...i had heard she could be like this...i didnt want to believe it...

this is the second person close to me that has turned on me...both were family members...both were trusted....

she knew she made me upset and she fucking smiled...

how can a person who said they would always be there for you be so hurtful?...i've written before about broken hearts and how they dont have to come from a relationship with a significant other...

i hurt so much and i am filled with anger...and she doesnt even care that i dont desire to see/speak to her after her outrageous behavior...

i know i probably dont make sense...but from now on she is EHB...

cg