Wednesday, June 18, 2008

how old is too old for sex?

so there is a great post on edge of vanilla about sexuality and the elderly...go read over it and let me know your thoughts...should grown children separate their octogenarian parents from engaging in sexual intercourse in a nursing home?

cg

6 curious people say...:

comfydildo said...

I think anyone healthy enough for sexual activity and who has a partner should not be denied simply because of his or her age. I really believe that if you are in a nursing home you should not be healthy enough for sex. If you are healthy enough for sex, you should be healthy enough to take care of yourself. But I guess people are bad sons and daughters and just slap their parents down in a home before it's time. In that sort of situation, sex would make the elderly person feel less lonely. Though privacy is still a big issue to my limited imagination.

curiousgirl said...

i have such a hard time trying to place limitations on other people...i agree that if you are mentally incapcitated then that means you are incapable of making that sort of decision...however, it still bothers me...such a controversial topic...

cg

Oxygen said...

if they can do it and it doesn't kill them why not? Forcefuly imposing one's will on others never turns out good... just look at dictatorships.

curiousgirl said...

@oxygen - good point...thanks for stopping by!

cg

bdenied said...

One is definitely too old for sex when one is dead. until then....rock on

curiousgirl said...

@bdenied - lol...add it as a special clause to your will for your children...

cg