Sunday, April 27, 2008

soldier boy

wants to have a quick "fling" before deployment...he has very very strong feelings for me...as good as it could be...dont know if that would be the right thing to do...he wants to start something serious when he returns in another year...oh boy...will have to think about this one...

cg

8 curious people say...:

thedateabledork said...

Well, I'm sure you have plenty of people in real life telling you not to do it... so I say go for it! Bang that soldier boy and report back with all the juicy details. I'll be banging a soldier tonight as well... : )

curiousgirl said...

lmao...well, the latest update is that there was a steamy scene late last night...but then he ruined it by asking things related to "commitment" and "what will happen when i come back..."...ugh...i hate to sound so cold, but that was exactly what i was afraid of!

cg

Dav9saol said...

That is a minefield now..he will be thinking you a LOT when he is deployed, and in his mind he will develop a relationship that may not exist. My two cents worth cg, would be to kindly explain you have feelings for him but are not interested in a commitment now or anytime soo..be careful!!

curiousgirl said...

@dav - i know...this has been over three years in the making btw..

cg

Aneris said...

Mmmmm. I will say that if he is serious, you should decline.

In a year, you will be even more complex, not the woman he left.

sorry, beautiful said...

I had nearly the exact same problem. Eventually I had to lay it out for him that anything relationship-like was a bad idea and he was probably being motivated more by fear of being deployed/loneliness than actual interest in me. In the end I say show him a good time but make perfectly clear that it isn't anything more than that. If you don't think he can get his head around it I would avoid it. And I found your site through thebeauatifulkind

curiousgirl said...

@aneris - complex woman never simplify over time do they...

@sorry, beautiful - thanks for stopping by...men in uniforms always seem to require their own book of rules and regulations...bleh...

cg

curiousgirl said...

@aneris - complex woman never simplify over time do they...

@sorry, beautiful - thanks for stopping by...men in uniforms always seem to require their own book of rules and regulations...bleh...

cg