Tuesday, May 5, 2009

tmi tuesday #185

TMI Tuesday

1. Have you ever bought a membership to a porn site? If yes, what is the most recent one and did you like it?

interestingly enough no...

2. Would you rather watch a erotic/porn movie, read a story, or listen to an audio? Why?

i would rather read something erotic that i've written aloud for another person to hear...why?...because it is very arousing to initiate another person's arousal...and to know that you can "control" it to a degree based on how you read it...based on what they thought they knew about you...but also like to watch/read/listen (well, i dont like to listen to stories being read, not really sure why)

3. If you have a significant other what do you do for each other to get in the mood? If you don't what would you kind of thing could a future potential long term partner do to get you in the mood?

do i have a "significant other"...hmm...i suppose that depends on the significance of a lot of things...so, i guess there is no straight answer on that one...(not that i am one to give completely straight answers, lol)

hmm...lots of teasing...i am big into word play...slowly twisting and turning thoughts in the other person's mind based on what arouses them/me...i enjoy engaging in fantasy...i like controlling the situation...a part of me feels frustrated and irritated if i cant...i lose interest so quickly when the other person tries to steer things...it's really difficult for me to stay focused and then my mind wanders and then suddenly the arousal is gone and i am left feeling bothered and annoyed...

4. When it comes to sex, how much do you talk about it with others? How comfortable are you talking about sex?

on here?...i talk a lot, obviously...i am very curious and interested in so many things that i want to know and understand the things others do (that are not necessarily for me) because i am fascinated with it...talking about my personal sex life outside of here?...doesnt happen...i keep that side very private...

5. What are the last 5 things you search for on Google (or another search engine)?

"for today i am a child, for today i am a boy" (someone had that on twitter and i found it very beautiful)

a specific clinical assessment center in the city where i live (has to do with work, not personal)

google (i was a moron and googled google but i was really looking for something else)

(i looked up stuff on amazon - i love amazon: searched for various items related to work)



Bonus: Have you ever had a fantasy that you were ashamed of?

that's a good question...not that i can think of...

cg

4 curious people say...:

Icarus said...

you like to "hmm...lots of teasing...i am big into word play...slowly twisting and turning thoughts in the other person's mind based on what arouses them/me...i enjoy engaging in fantasy"

slowly turning and twisting thoughts..
I can see that from your blog as well..

petitemort said...

Using words to create arousing associations in your partner's mind requires a high degree of familiarity, either with him/her or human nature in general. If you can achieve that, success in lovemaking should follow easily.

curiousgirl said...

@icarus - i do enjoy teasing...i need that mental stimulation...that "mind fuck"...

@petitemort - high degree of familiarity....ah, therein lies my struggle...because i have difficulty forming those attachments...

cg

the_beast_within said...

1. regular porn site, no....chat and dating site, yes.

2. I tend to get most arousal out of reading something erotic....having someone read it can be extremely hot.

3. hm...lots of teasing and sex talk throughout the day, making her feel nice, something like a bubble bath or massage....

4. I talk about it a lot with numerous people.

5. work stuff, and "avidcuriosity"

bonus: yes